Collaborative process means working outside the court system. We sit down in a series of meetings, disclose the relevant facts and negotiate mutually acceptable solutions. Collaborative professionals have additional training to better understand conflict and negotiate creative solutions.
Studies by the International Association of Collaborative Professionals have shown that 90% of the public can negotiate an acceptable resolution of their conflict with targeted help. It doesn’t make sense to start with the court system, since only 10% of people will need it.
Things have changed for you, but you can guide your future life. You can choose professionals to educate you about the law, family dynamics, emotional and financial concerns, and anything else that you need to know, as you move through this phase of your life.
You can seek out professionals who are expert in negotiating acceptable resolutions and work efficiently to save time and money. No matter how much money one has, it is best spent on your family. You can keep control over your family decisions rather than give up control to a court system.
“Putting Children First”
JoAnne Pedro Carroll, Ph.D.
“The Collaborative Way to Divorce: The Revolutionary Method that Results in Less Stress, Lower Costs, and Happier Kids-Without Going To Court”
Ron Ousky and Stuart Webb
“Difficult Conversations, How to Discuss What Matters Most”
Roger Fisher, William Ury, and Burse Patton
“Taking the War out of Words”
Sharon Strand Ellison
